Premature Baby Archer

A friend of mine Zoe gave birth to her little boy Archer prematurely at 24 weeks in September. Archer has been at Monash Medical Centre for the past 3 months and has overcome many obsticles including a heart operation due to his valve not closing.

When i gave birth to my son, Tristan, back in October i had the pleasure of meeting the now famous little Archer and what a gorgeous little man he is. Like all of us Zoe and her husband Luke, were thrown into the unknown world of having a premature baby and they have both coped amazingly. They are both such strong people and are brilliant parents. They attend to the bedside of Archer each day and thrive in the cuddles they can give their son when he is able to handle them.

When we had a coffee with Zoe and Luke we had a good chat about life in the NICU and about Archers progress. Whilst we could understand their fears, frustration, excitement and thoughts about the road ahead we have no idea how hard their journey has been as both our children were born at different gestations with Ronan being born at 27 weeks. Zoe and Luke both watched the antics that Ronan got up to whilst we were having our coffee and i am sure they can’t wait for Archer to do the same. Archer is doing brilliantly and coming along so well now and we are so proud of Zoe and Luke for being so strong for their little boy even in the down times.

Here is an article regarding the famous little Archer being in Monash for christmas. This article is brilliant and just shows how amazing this special family are.

Herald Sun - Premature Baby Archer A Shining Star This Christmas

Premature Birth/Babies Forum

Our premmie forum has become one of Australia’s busiest support communities for premature babies families & friends. Our forum has a member base of over 630 members from Australia and beyond so you can be sure to find other premmie parents in your state or even parents who had their premmie babies at the same hospital as you.

Our forum offers families support, understanding, parenting advice, hope, friendship and networking. Our members have many “meet ups” with other parents in the same state and some parents have even started their own premmie morning teas due to the lack of support in their area.

There are many areas on the forum where you can write about your premature babies and their journey. We have parents with premmie babies in NICU, SCN, high risk pregnancies, babies who have just gone home to premmie babies who are toddlers and in school so you can be assured that there are parents who understand your situation.

We have a specific area on the forum where you can write about your premature babies journey whilst going through NICU/SCN, you can have your very own parent diary, write about your babies milestone achievements or delays, post photos of your gorgeous children, ask questions or talk about your premmie baby in our specific gestation areas. There are specific areas when you can chat to parents who have had a premature baby between 23 - 26 weeks, 27 - 30 weeks, 31 - 34 weeks, 35 weeks +.

We look forward to seeing you on the premmie forum and becoming apart of our free fantastic premmie parent community.

www.lilaussieprems.com.au/premforum

Premmie Parent ~ Pregnant Again cont…

Well here i am at 32 weeks pregnant! I cannot believe that i am still pregnant after having such an early premature birth with Ronan.

A lot of things have been happening including still going to my high risk clinic appointments at Monash every 2 weeks and we actually found out the reason WHY Ronan came early after a few blood tests and an AMAZING doctor who is looking after me. She is just the BEST and i couldn’t have asked for such a more gentle person to look after me throughout this pregnancy. I am very blessed that she figured out what happened within 2 weeks and no one else even tried after 2.5 years!

The best way to describe the reason for Ronan’s premature birth was that my placenta was not working properly. My blood results that were taken recently indicate that i have a “spelling mistake” in my chromosones. Basically my placenta will absorb nutrients ie: folic acid etc.. but it does not know how to distribute the nutients, so my placenta pealed away which lead to “placental abruption” due to the lack of nutrients. With the placenta pealing away this triggered on the heavy bleeding and the sponateous labour. Apparently this condition/”spelling mistake” is something that is passed on from my parents. Unless tests were done we wouldn’t know which parent it was but due to my mother & sister not having any complications with premature babies/premature birth of their own it would be interesting to find out if it was from my dad.

I had a scan last week to check that bubs was growing correctly and apparently everything is going great. He was head down, there was plenty of fluid, the cervix was closed and bubs weighed approx 1.8kgs or 1800 grams so he was growing very good. Apparently around the 31 week mark most babies weigh approx 1500 grams so he is a chubby bubby! My doctor said that he would be around 7 - 8lbs when born. What a huge difference between that number and 2.8lbs when my little premmie was born. Gosh i hope i don’t have any problems delivering naturally due to having a BIGGER baby.

Here i am at 32 weeks gestation and still going strong. I am feeling really good this pregnancy, no swelling, no backaches, no complications. It does actually feel very strange to know that i have a “normal” pregnancy! This is not something that i thought would happen and everyday i keep waking up thinking “ok when will our little boy come, is it today”. Because i am anticipating another premature baby i am sure we will have a very healthy newborn which will be totally surreal but very exciting.

I hope that my little updates give those parents of premature babies a little hope that having another baby after having a premmie can actually go to plan. It all depends on your situation of course but if you do plan on having another baby be sure to book yourself into the “high risk clinic” at your nearest hospital so you are closely monitored. For the health of you and your baby and also for peace of mind they really do watch you and monitor everything along the way.

Here is a picture of my belly at 31 weeks!

Happy Father’s Day

Father’s Day: the media is full of images of happy, healthy children rushing to give their much-loved if slightly hopeless father a blokey gift, but when your little one is still in hospital the stereotypes are meaningless and all you really want is to have your child come home.

What is the role of a father of a premature baby? When my daughter was born unexpectedly early, my husband missed the birth completely - no magical memories of cutting the cord for him, he wasn’t even able to hold my hand. While I found myself on early maternity leave and able to spend all day in the NICU, he was still at work - sometimes far away. It made no sense for him to take his one week of paternity leave until we brought our baby home, at which point his employer initally refused to grant him the leave because it was more than 3 months after her birth!

My husband shared all my anxieties about Talia’s health, not to mention the broken sleep as I rose twice a night to express, without the joy and reassurance of being able to hold his daughter for days on end. He visited the nursery in the quiet of the evenings when the doctors were gone and the lights were dimmed, and sang her soft songs of love below the beeping of the monitors.

Now more than a year later, he still sings her songs. He holds her tight and reads her books, sits on the floor playing with her as soon as he gets home from work, pushes her on the swing in the park and rejoices in every little milestone. He knows how lucky we are to have her, and I know how lucky she is to have him too.

Pre-Eclampsia Awareness Week

I just discovered that this week is Pre-Eclampsia Awareness Week.

I had never even heard of pre-eclampsia until a friend of mine told me it was the reason she needed to have her baby delivered 8 weeks early, four years ago. To be honest, at that time I didn’t have any idea what she had been through. Since my daughter was born I’ve met a lot more women - mostly via L’il Aussie Prems - who suffered from this very serious and sometimes life-threatening medical condition and whose babies were born prematurely as a result. In fact even two friends in my new mothers’ group who were able to have full term babies also suffered from pre-eclampsia in the late stages of their pregnancy. It’s a lot more common than I had previously imagined.

The Australian Action on Pre-Eclampsia (AAPEC) has a website at http://www.aapec.org.au with a good FAQ and stories from people who’ve been through it personally.